I recently traveled to Sikkim and spent about a month there, reconnecting with old friends and meeting new people. I was warmly welcomed, shown around, and had an incredible time. I even celebrated the New Year there, which made the trip even more special.

But there's something that's been weighing on my mind. Many Bhutanese people visit Sikkim for pilgrimages, exploring monasteries and holy sites. Some even make the trip every year. Unlike when they visit Bhutan, they don't have to pay the Sustainable Development Fee (SDF) or face additional costs.

One day, a guy shared his thoughts with me: “I wish we could visit Bhutan with our families the way you all come here — driving our own cars and enjoying the country freely. But it's so expensive for us. We have to pay 4500 per night for the car and 1200 per person as SDF, not to mention food, lodging, and a guide. Bhutan is such a beautiful country, and I truly love it — the people are amazing too.”

When I heard this, I felt a deep sense of sadness and helplessness. I didn't know how to respond.

As a tour guide, all I can do is organize trips or guide them — but I can't change the system or the costs involved. It's frustrating to see how much they want to experience Bhutan but are held back by financial barriers. It's a reminder of how limited my role is, and it leaves me feeling powerless to make a difference.